tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post115137732808413772..comments2023-11-01T03:48:37.261-04:00Comments on From Tracie: Personality and Making FriendsTracie Nallhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07908908021649000930noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1162002250452724842006-10-27T22:24:00.000-04:002006-10-27T22:24:00.000-04:00I have very few friends, but the friends that I do...I have very few friends, but the friends that I do have are dear indeed. I choose to have a small network: I don't have the time to maintain a large one. Shallow relationships - and people - bother me. I don't have the time for them, either.<BR/><BR/>That said, I have a huge network. I know a lot of people through work and through life in general. And everyone knows who I am - partly because I've got a really unique name, and partly because I work in a higher-profile sector.<BR/><BR/>When I travel to conferences, I build instant rapport with my travel-mates, and I often keep in touch with them afterward. But nothing comes close to quiet time at home with the only folks who really matter. When push comes to shove, I hate being "out there". I'd rather keep things quiet and close.carmilevyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00360045114379957605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151644693741784952006-06-30T01:18:00.000-04:002006-06-30T01:18:00.000-04:00Great post! I tend to be different people at diff...Great post! I tend to be different people at different times. SOMEtimes I'm very extroverted and can be just like that.... but I have to be in the right mood. And it's MORE likely to happen if I'm in a place where I MIGHT never have to see those people again - if I so choose! But when I start a new school, or a new job - then I tend to be a little more cautious -- I think it's in the knOwing that you have to continue to be around these people for quite some time in the future - and you don't want to look like a HUMONGOUS idiot right off the bat! ;)<BR/><BR/>But now I have to run back over to Wendy's - cuz I'm not quite DONE making a fool of myself over there yet! See ya there!Mellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16266127127286739779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151644218264528612006-06-30T01:10:00.000-04:002006-06-30T01:10:00.000-04:00i just like to read blogs and assume the blogger i...i just like to read blogs and assume the blogger is my immediate friend. heh heh<BR/><BR/>hey you don't suppose i could borrow 5 bucks could I?Unique Designs from Zazzlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15691883868843839849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151643698248972342006-06-30T01:01:00.000-04:002006-06-30T01:01:00.000-04:00So nothing's happened since Monday? lol. Michele...So nothing's happened since Monday? lol. Michele says hi.MsThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05549409687537066330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151529879501044012006-06-28T17:24:00.000-04:002006-06-28T17:24:00.000-04:00Hi Tracie, and thanks for stopping by my site toda...Hi Tracie, and thanks for stopping by my site today! I can totally relate to your post. I'm usually the one that would rather pick up a magazine in the grocery line than strike up a conversation, but recently I have to say I am more and more realizing that I could be letting some wonderful people be totally unknown to me only because, as you said, the magazine (or book) is safer. Here's to meeting wonderful strangers , like you, today!Tiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03522195965279580830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151506813266631502006-06-28T11:00:00.000-04:002006-06-28T11:00:00.000-04:00Neat how you remembered that experience like that ...Neat how you remembered that experience like that one. I was very shy and had to start high school in a new town at a big school and remember how intimidating it was to make new friends. Thankfully I had many I made through my youth group at church. Oh, I am also a Tackle It Tuesday person and come join us next week! I just saw two of my tackle it buddies who left comments.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08473958284172107705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151503727624219202006-06-28T10:08:00.000-04:002006-06-28T10:08:00.000-04:00Oh, this brings back memories for me too. I moved ...Oh, this brings back memories for me too. I moved to a city school from a country school in grade six and I stuck out like a sore thumb. The experience did change me though. I'm an introvert on the inside and an extrovert on the outside. But it would be so nice if someone else would make the first move though. Why is it ALWAYS me?? So I guess I'm more of an introvert... just trying to fit in.<BR/><BR/>:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151502776346951942006-06-28T09:52:00.000-04:002006-06-28T09:52:00.000-04:00Ha, as someone who works at a computer company I c...Ha, as someone who works at a computer company I can definitely relate to this post. Being surrounded by socially awkward middle aged men makes me feel like an anthropologist at times:PBillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17361963045614441893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151473559107727682006-06-28T01:45:00.000-04:002006-06-28T01:45:00.000-04:00I think I reinvented myself when I took art class ...I think I reinvented myself when I took art class instead of home ec in high school. But I also had different personalities when I was around the different groups I hung out with - the art crew, the brainiacs, the drama club, and the newspaper. Michele says hi.MsThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05549409687537066330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151464572247851502006-06-27T23:16:00.000-04:002006-06-27T23:16:00.000-04:00Thought-provoking comments. I made a major move in...Thought-provoking comments. I made a major move in 7th grade too and had "someone" tell me I should just change from being an introvert to an extrovert, be a whole new me. It didn't work, but I made good friends that I still have to this day. Ironically I married an extrovert and have extroverted kids. Guess God knew I needed a whole family to keep me from living among my books and scrapbooks. As much as I love alone time and quiet time, I need the excitement of the extroverts in my life!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151463809698983972006-06-27T23:03:00.000-04:002006-06-27T23:03:00.000-04:00Extrovert here also, but I wasn't growing up by an...Extrovert here also, but I wasn't growing up by any means. Sometimes things change as we get older, thank God.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151419129902332902006-06-27T10:38:00.000-04:002006-06-27T10:38:00.000-04:00Oh, my. I hear you, Tracie. I too have always be...Oh, my. I hear you, Tracie. I too have always been jealous of that person who can just decide that these strangers are going to be her friends now. It's a little easier to introduce yourself online, but in real life...? It's hard! <BR/><BR/>Thanks for visiting me today!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151413139947517642006-06-27T08:58:00.000-04:002006-06-27T08:58:00.000-04:00You know, I am like Janice. I am a total extrovert...You know, I am like Janice. I am a total extrovert. And if people don't talk much to me, I always feel that they don't like me...strange! But growing up is much more painful not making 'friends' quickly. Everyone is in a clique and it is hard to be one of them...I am glad you had made friends. <BR/><BR/>BTW - why don't you join us next week to tackle a project...It is kind of fun...especially when it is done...you have a big 'ah' effect...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12565507.post-1151389674892460732006-06-27T02:27:00.000-04:002006-06-27T02:27:00.000-04:00Great post! As a recovering wallflower and natural...Great post! As a recovering wallflower and natural introvert, I can totally relate to this. It is hard to put yourself out there and be the person to reach out to others sometimes. I try to do that more than I used to, but it's still hard. I think it's the fear of rejection that gets me. But usually when I DO reach out, I find that people are receptive. I just need to do it more.Cristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07245436504933052526noreply@blogger.com