From Tracie

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

I Am With The Band

There is a little corner of the web that is growing bigger every day.

It is full of love, support, and healing.

It is Band Back Together.



The mission? Band Back Together is a group weblog that provides educational resources as well as a safe, moderated, supportive environment to share stories of survival. Through the power of real stories written by real people, we can work together to destigmatize mental illness, abuse, rape, baby loss and other traumas so that we may learn, grow, and heal.
All are welcome.

When I'm not here, I am with the band - working behind the scenes on SEO and resource pages, and working the facebook. (Have you liked Band Back Together on facebook? Stop by and say hi!)

Today, I am honored to be at Band Back Together for real, with a post that is part of the ongoing "I Am Me Project", defining myself. I Am Tracie - I Am With The BAND!



Saturday, August 27, 2011

August 2011 - Blog Against Child Abuse



I want to thank Astrid for all the work she did this month, hosting and organizing the carnival. 


There are a lot of great submissions. I hope that you will be blessed as you read through them, and show some support to those who have shared their hearts and healing journeys with us this month.

Thank you for raising your voice and speaking out against child abuse. 

The Blog Carnival Against Child Abuse provides an opportunity to raise awareness about the serious issue of child abuse and to share important posts with others who may not be frequent readers of an author's blog, and expose one's work to a wider audience. There are so many wonderful bloggers who are contributing to the cause of ending and recovering from child abuse. If you, as a reader or author, know of other blogs that you find helpful, please encourage them to submit to an upcoming issue of the Carnival Against Child Abuse; and please bookmark that page so we can continue to receive high quality submissions from a wide swath of bloggers.

If you are interested in hosting an edition of the blog carnival at your blog, please email me at blogcarnivalagainstchildabuse@gmail.com 

Thursday, August 25, 2011

A Tale Of Loo Water

Tracie- "Thomas, would you please get me some lime water?"

Thomas- "Katarina, would you please get your mom some lime water?"

Katarina (while giggling and running into the bathroom)- "I'll get you some loo water"

Tracie- "I don't want loo water. I want lime water."

Katarina (calling out from the bathroom)- "Loo water coming up."

Thomas gets up and walks toward the kitchen.

Tracie- "Y'all better not bring me loo water."

Thomas- "Blue water? What is blue water?"

Tracie- "LOO water. I want lime water, from the kitchen."

Thomas- "Where is Katarina getting blue water?"

Katarina (over the sound of the toilet flushing)- "I'm not getting her blue water, I'm getting her loo water"

Tracie- "She is getting it from the loo. Katarina, if you bring me loo water, you will be in trouble."

Thomas- "What is blue water?"

Katarina (walking into the kitchen)- "Dad, I'm not getting her blue water, I'm getting her LOON water."

Tracie- "I thought you said you were getting me loo water."

Katarina- "No, Mom. I said loon water. Water for a loon."


At this point, I went to the kitchen and made my own lime water.
It seemed safer that way.






Monday, August 22, 2011

A Hat Full of Baby Squirrels

Friday was beautiful, so Katarina and I decided to go to work with Thomas for the afternoon, and enjoy the fresh air. At our second job, Thomas was raising the limbs on a tree to have a 10 foot clearance. He didn't realize there was a nest on a particularly high limb until the it fell to the ground, and the squeaky-cheeps of baby squirrels filled the air. Four newborn gray squirrels.

The house we were working at was in a busy neighborhood, and with the yard work going on and the homeowner's pets wandering around, we couldn't leave the squirrels on the ground safely, so we gathered them up in a hat Thomas had in the truck.
Katarina holding a hat full of baby gray squirrels

The homeowner took one look at our hat full of squirrels, and with a panicked look in her eyes, said, "You are going to take those squirrels with you, right?! You can not leave them here."

Baby Gray Squirrels, in a hat

We took the squirrels to a nearby pet store to get a small box, and some material to keep them warm.

Caring for squirrels isn't new for us. A few years ago, Thomas brought home two orphaned baby squirrels. There was no wildlife rehabilitation agency, veterinarian, or pet store in the town we used to live, that was willing to care for squirrels. With no one to take them in, we named them Poncho and Lefty, and raised them until they were old enough to be released (just call me Bob Ross).

With fond memories of Poncho and Lefty running through our minds, Thomas and I were tempted to raise these new babies ourselves. But where we currently live, we don't have the right kind of space for squirrels, and we aren't allowed to have pets. Raising them ourselves was not a realistic option.

Tracie and Leslie Johnson


One of the pet store employees gave us a phone number for someone who works with wild animals. Leslie Johnson is a board member and volunteer with the Wildlife Rehabilitation Center of Central Florida, and she takes in orphaned squirrels.


A quick phone call later, we were on our way to Leslie's house.



Katarina had already started to bond with the baby squirrels and was not excited to give them up. There was some tears. After talking about it, she understood that we couldn't give them the care they needed, and keeping them wouldn't be responsible or kind.

When we arrived at Leslie's house, Katarina was happy to see that she already had a slightly older baby squirrel there who could be friends with our little ones. We will also be checking in on the squirrels as they grow (until it is time for them to be released into the wild), and that helped her feel better about leaving them.
Katarina holding a baby Gray Squirrel and Four Newborn Baby Squirrels

What should you do if you find baby squirrels?
-Place the squirrels in a safe spot, near their tree. Quietly watch from a distance, to make sure that the babies are safe, until the mama squirrel comes back.
-It doesn't matter if you touched the babies, the mama will take them back.
-Gray squirrels usually have a second nest already built, so they can quickly relocate the babies once they return.
-If the mom does not return, the most important thing you need to do - keep the babies warm and hydrated - until you can turn them over to a wildlife rehabilitator in your area.

Baby Grey Squirrels

*The Wildlife Rehabilitation Center of Central Florida is a non-profit organization, which receives no state or federal funding. They rely on donations from private citizens and businesses to fund the care of injured and orphaned animals, rehabilitate them, and return them to the wild. Several volunteers, like Leslie, care for animals in their homes, and the center cares for an average of 2,000 animals a year. We are very thankful that they were willing to take in and raise our four baby squirrels.

What is the most unusual pet or animal you have cared for? 

Sunday, August 21, 2011

I'm Singing...Got My Mind Set On You

I usually have something in mind when I sit down to write these stream of consciousness posts.

Is that cheating? Should I clear my mind before I start and then go from there?

I don't know if that is advisable, but we are about to find out....because I currently have no thoughts going on.

Not one.

Saturday was rather unremarkable. Katarina and I worked on a cross stitching project most of the day, except for the time we were reading. Exciting stuff. (actually, although that probably isn't very exciting - it was enjoyable)

Saturday night we watched a dvd of the Concert for George Harrison. Which was fabulous. So much good music. It was sad to watch it, though. And freaky just how much George's son looks like him.

That was the thrillingness of my weekend, and the excitement of the thoughts in my mind. Mostly the thought in my mind is why they didn't sing Got My Mind Set On You - which probably wasn't his best song, but has always been one of my favorites ever since I saw the video when I was a kid. (the video with the singing animal heads, not the video with the ballet dancer trapped in the box/machine/video-player thing. I'm not sure why there was two videos for that song). So now that song is stuck in my head. In a good way. As well as Give Me Love, which they did sing in the concert.
Do you have a favorite George Harrison song?